How sad to know that such parents exist in this world. The mother left the family and disappeared, the father wanted to get rid of his daughters and pledged a complete stranger to take care of them.
How crude?
I hate such irresponsible parents. So what the couples are young? They know how to make love, but cant even take the bloody responsibility of the end result?
What a child wants is just a sense of belonging, love, care and concern from the parents. Next, environment plays a big big role in their growing stage. No wonder juvenile delinquency is on the rise, dont tell me they are beyond parental control, its plain excuse to me. They are being labelled as juvenile for a reason.
Think back the times when we were just a juvenile? Do you feel stupid to even think back of the things you did back then? And obviously regret it? Everybody does! What am i trying to prove? They are not in the right maturity state to make decisions for themselves and normally, the path they choose to take is going to land them in some kind of trouble, so please, the child maker be responsible and nurture them for goodness sake.
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I am being separated from mum since 7 years old because of my studies and sometimes i do hate her for making this decision. I feel that my life is lacking of something and i am constantly unhappy and depress.
My growning years were a painful one but, I am proud to say the pain make me to become a stronger person. I am lucky that though i did fall into bad company but my determination not to get influenced is there. I did not join gang, smoke, drink, do drugs, have casual sex like friends around me.
Chastity.
Well, i did try to smoke, few months back though BUT not in the influence of peer. I dont see the pleasure of smoking, and they make me sick. Serious headache, cold sweat and ulcer. Damn, How you people enjoy smoking? And i totally agree with mei fang, smokers are a huge turn off.
I have a girlfriend, she used to smoke alot, go clubbing and have fun. But, ever since she found out she was pregnant she tried her best to quit the habit of smoking and she did it. Not only for the babies but for herself as well.
I totally respect her, she is a very strong willed woman though she is from a broken family herself. But she strive to give the best to her daughters, I never see such dedication from other young mummy before. She handle her daughters' life very well, take care of every details of their life from A to Z.
No other woman like her, really.
Girlfriend, although we rarely catch up with each other, i want you to know that theres a little space in my heart and mind reserved just for you. We are too caught up with our own life but i never forget to whisper a little prayer for you and your love ones every night.
Cheers to our friendship! Loves!
Edited: Photos up next post. Promise. (:
